Being a mom of two was one of the most exhausting jobs I handled. I can say that being in the corporate world working with your best look and earning money for the family was great. Having a career growth was good. But sometimes you need to make a choice and become selfless.
Being Stay-At-Home-Mom (SAHM) mostly judge by many people. They think that you’re having a good and easy life since you are staying at home all day, with your children as if you’re do nothing.
But let me tell you, being SAHM was not easy. Having toddlers and children around you, they make you feel crazy and it tests all your skills in different forms. It requires lots of effort and attention. You’ll get emotionally and physically drained that sometimes lead us to feel guilty, depress and sometimes leads to anxiety. But hey Mom! ” You’re doing it right”.
Never ever doubt your intuition being a Mother because it came naturally. Motherhood was never a joke but in exchange, you get a “PURE LOVE” from your little angels. Maybe, other people, won’t understand but it the eyes of those little angels you are their strength. For them, you are their greatest HERO, a super “MOMMA” that can do anything.
It will not be always like that. Somehow in our life as a mother, we’ve always felt to lose our sanity but looking at them, hugging by those little arms and kissing by them makes us realized that we choose the right decision in our life. There will be a lot of up’s and down. There will be different challenges and trials but you will not realize it for now, that you’re doing a great job as a mom.
Seeing your kids grow was one of the best achievements we can have. Making them feel love and mold them to become a great person was the result of all our efforts and sacrifices and that was more than enough to not feel ashamed about ourselves as a mother.
Maybe other people will not like you or judge you, but there was always a person or little people that love you so dearly, your CHILDREN and they are EVERYTHING.
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